Parents Archives - Alumni News /adv/alumni-news-media/tag/parents/ Ģý Tue, 18 Nov 2025 14:46:48 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 Taking Meliora to new heights /adv/alumni-news-media/2025/10/22/taking-meliora-to-new-heights/ /adv/alumni-news-media/2025/10/22/taking-meliora-to-new-heights/#respond Wed, 22 Oct 2025 17:11:32 +0000 /adv/alumni-news-media/?p=95322 The Ģý is celebrating its 175th anniversary, and the celebration reached new heights—literally—at the Great Wall of China. On June 14, 2025, the Beijing team of the Chinese Parents Network Committee (CPNC) hosted a special event, bringing together more than 40 parents, alumni, students, and incoming families to welcome new members of the Rochester community and celebrate this historic milestone.

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Taking Meliora to new heights

Celebrating together in China and Rochester, led by the China Parent Network Committee.

Chenghan (Hannah) Tang ’26, daughter of Shu Zhou, President of the China Parent Network Committee, presents the bamboo slips to Tom Farrell ’88, ’90W (MS), senior vice president of advancement.

Chenghan (Hannah) Tang ’26, daughter of Shu Zhou, President of the China Parent Network Committee, presents the bamboo slips to Tom Farrell ’88, ’90W (MS), senior vice president of advancement.

The Ģý is celebrating its 175th anniversary this year, and celebrations have reached new heights—literally—at the Great Wall of China. On June 14, 2025, the Beijing team of the China Parent Network Committee (CPNC) hosted a special event, bringing together more than 40 parents, alumni, students, and incoming families to welcome new members of the Rochester community and celebrate this historic milestone.

As a tribute to the University, on October 6, 2025. The piece entitled “Great Wall Hero Bamboo Slips” embodies both cultural and historical significance, featuring the ancient Chinese writing medium of bamboo slips, engraved with Chairman Mao Zedong’s poem Qing Ping Yue · Liupan Mountain.

The gift symbolizes courage, heritage, and connection, values shared by both the Ģý and its global community.

In addition to the event atop the Great Wall, celebrations were held in Shanghai, Suzhou, Guangzhou, Hangzhou, Shenzhen, Jinan, Chengdu, and a second event in Beijing throughout the year, hosted by members of the CPNC.

Chenghan (Hannah) Tang ’26, Reitumetse Obakeng Mabokela, vice provost, global engagement, Aamir Anwar, executive director, International Advancement

Chenghan (Hannah) Tang ’26, Reitumetse Obakeng Mabokela, vice provost, global engagement, Aamir Anwar, executive director, international advancement

— Mary Burke, 2025

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Renaissance man and mentor: Elliot Richman ’70, ’75 (PhD) /adv/alumni-news-media/2022/12/16/renaissance-man-and-mentor-elliot-richman-70-75-phd/ /adv/alumni-news-media/2022/12/16/renaissance-man-and-mentor-elliot-richman-70-75-phd/#respond Fri, 16 Dec 2022 15:35:07 +0000 /adv/alumni-news-media/?p=58242 This scientist, teacher, writer, and musician serves as a sounding board for University students and recent graduates through The Meliora Collective’s Mentorship Program

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Renaissance man and mentor: Elliot Richman ’70, ’75 (PhD)

This scientist, teacher, writer, and musician serves as a sounding board for University students and recent graduates through The Meliora Collective’s Mentorship Program

Elliot Richman '70, '75 (PhD)

Elliot Richman ’70, ’75 (PhD)

Elliot Richman is a modern-day Renaissance man. He earned his bachelor’s and PhD in chemistry at Rochester after which he joined Columbia University as a post-doctoral research fellow. He then he applied his knowledge and became a medical and science editor and journalist. Later, he taught high school science.

Over the years, Richman has pursued many interests, too, including as a musician (he’s been playing the piano since age 7), an opera and ballet aficionado, and a voracious reader, taking in everything from The New Yorker magazine to the latest translation of Homer’s The Odyssey.

Richman is also a mentor. In 2020, when the Ģý launched its through The Meliora Collective (its unique online networking program for personal and professional development ), he decided to join. It was at the beginning of COVID, and the University recognized a growing need to create mentorship opportunities for current students and recent graduates. So did Richman.

“I signed up as a mentor because I realized that the insights I’d collected from my education, career, and life could be useful to someone just starting out,” says Richman, who retired in 2017. “I also knew how much I could’ve benefitted from having a mentor when I was a young man and I wanted to be that person for someone else. I’m glad I’ve gotten involved—it’s been a very rewarding experience.”

Being a mentor has become a second career of sorts for Richman, too. Since the program began, he has mentored eight Ģý students and recent graduates. Richman has enjoyed mentoring so much that he’s even become one for other organizations that are important to him, including the National Associates of Science Writers and the American Chemical Society.

Dianna Cacace ’22

Dianna Cacace ’22

Dianna Cacace ’22, a current graduate student in bioethics at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, was one of Richman’s first Rochester mentees. They were matched at the program’s launch, when she was a rising college junior. The two have stayed connected since then.

“As a first-generation student, I joined the program because I wanted to talk to and learn from someone who’s been to college and has had an interesting life and career,” she says. “Elliot has been so helpful—he’s guided me through various career options and choices. From him, I’ve learned that there are all sorts of paths our lives will take and that I can learn from every decision I make.”

For those considering whether or not to join the mentorship program as a mentee, Cacace recommends that they sign up. “It never hurts to have more people in your corner,” she says. Richman agrees and encourages people to become mentors, too. He adds, “Everyone has valuable life experience to share. Be a resource and a mirror for young people and help them navigate their next steps.”

The benefits of mentorship and the University’s Mentorship Program

As defined by Elliot Richman

1. It’s not a job placement program: The University’s mentorship program is not a dedicated job placement and career services operation. It is intended to provide an opportunity for students and recent graduates to undergo personal growth not tied to any curriculum or employment hierarchy. While it does allow for the development of employment-acquisition skills, it encourages broader introspection and deeper self-reflection, the results of which would be applicable at any life or career stage moving forward.
2. Mentors are sounding boards. My primary purposes as a mentor are to be a sounding board for University students and recent graduates to express their thoughts, motivations, fears, and plans; to serve as a critical lens through which they might refine their ideas and plans; and to enable mentees to formulate short-term and long-term goals more clearly in order to enhance the probability of achieving them through more effective planning.
3. All time together is well-spent. I view the time spent with all mentees as valuable, regardless of how the timing of our interactions lines up or fails to line up with their apparent outward progress toward their goals.
4. It helps mentees prepare for the unexpected. If everything proceeded according to plan and life were simple we wouldn’t have any need for a mentorship program. It’s to prepare for and learn how one might deal with the unexpected, the surprise turn of events, and the potential (and, of course, inevitable) new wrinkles in one’s life and path.

Did you know? Mentor was a mythological character

Richman notes an interesting point not often talked about outside of scholarly circles: that Mentor was actually a fictional, mythological character. The notes this, too, and defines Mentor as “a friend of Odysseus entrusted with the education of Odysseus’ son, Telemachus.” The word “mentor” has since evolved to mean trusted counselor or guide.

Make connections

Join and explore The Meliora Collective—an online platform for alumni, parents, faculty, staff, and undergraduate and graduate students that fosters personal and professional exploration. Learn more about , too, which runs twice each year, and matches individuals based on academic and career interests, affinities, and life experiences. The next mentorship cycle will begin accepting new mentees and mentor sign-ups in January with matching to take place in early February.

Elliot Richman lives in Baltimore, Maryland, with his wife, Laura, of 43 years. Their son, Daniel, was a triple major at Rochester who graduated in 2008. In 2015, they established the Laura and Elliot Richman Travel Endowment in the chemistry department, which provides support for graduate students to attend and present their research at regional and national conferences and meetings. The Richmans are also founding members of the George Eastman Circle, the University’s leadership annual giving society.

— Kristine Kappel Thompson, January 2022

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Good Books: Tim Russert’s Wisdom of our Fathers /adv/alumni-news-media/2022/05/06/good-books-mitchell-hecker-p23-recommends-tim-russerts-wisdom-of-our-fathers/ /adv/alumni-news-media/2022/05/06/good-books-mitchell-hecker-p23-recommends-tim-russerts-wisdom-of-our-fathers/#respond Fri, 06 May 2022 19:24:34 +0000 /adv/alumni-news-media/?p=48492 Just in time for Father’s Day, University volunteer and parent Mitchell Hecker P’23 recommends Tim Russert’s Wisdom of our Fathers: Lessons and Letters from Daughters and Sons, a New York Times bestseller.

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Good Books: Tim Russert’s Wisdom of Our Fathers

Just in time for Father’s Day, University volunteer and parent Mitchell Hecker recommends Tim Russert’s , a New York Times bestseller.

Wisdom of Our Fathers: Lessons and Letters from Daughters and Sons by Tim Russert book coverWisdom of Our Fathers is a compelling read that reinforced a lot of the thoughts I have had about parenting, and about fatherhood, of course. Regardless of whether you are a father or a mother, the letters and memories from sons and daughters echoed the importance of giving your children time, attention, and love. The material things just don’t matter. But, going on a road trip together; cheering at a soccer game, a high school theater performance, or a speech and debate tournament; or just picking up the phone when your college-aged child needs you, those seemingly small yet incredibly important moments do matter.

Volunteering for whatever groups my sons are involved in, including at the University, also brings about a whole other level of connection and satisfaction for me. This book really brought home for me that the best part of parenting is to have a front row seat to whatever my two sons are doing—to watch them discover themselves.

Looking for more good books? Join the University’s Virtual and peruse our Alumni Bookshelf.

Mitchell Hecker and his son Ryan
Mitchell Hecker with his son, Ryan Hecker '23. The Hecker family—which includes Mitchell's wife, Lorrie, and other son, Matt—lives in Summit, N.J.

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Member Spotlight: Michael Blank and Marlene Eisenberg /adv/alumni-news-media/2021/09/02/member-spotlight-michael-blank-and-marlene-eisenberg/ /adv/alumni-news-media/2021/09/02/member-spotlight-michael-blank-and-marlene-eisenberg/#respond Thu, 02 Sep 2021 18:20:00 +0000 /adv/alumni-news-media/?p=37812 George Eastman Circle members and volunteers, Michael Blank and Marlene Eisenberg, celebrated the recent graduation of their daughter, Lilo, from the URochester. They are grateful for their many ties to the University and reflect here on their close connections and rewarding moments they have experienced.

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Member Spotlight: Michael Blank and Marlene Eisenberg

George Eastman Circle members and volunteers, Michael Blank ’80 and Marlene Eisenberg ’80, celebrated the recent graduation of their daughter, Lilo, from the URochester. They are grateful for their many ties to the University and reflect here on their close connections and rewarding moments they have experienced.

Michael Blank and Marlene Eisenberg
Marlene Eisenberg '80, Lilo Blank '20 and Michael Blank '80

Q: Why did you decide to join the George Eastman Circle?

A: We were initially approached about joining the George Eastman Circle well before our daughter, Lilo, decided to attend the URochester. We often reminisced about our time at Rochester and agreed that we owed our alma mater a great debt.  We were both psychology majors, graduating in 1980, and were afforded unparalleled opportunities as undergraduate research assistants; opportunities that we have not seen duplicated at any other university since. As undergraduates, we worked with faculty luminaries such as Emory Cowen, Ed Deci, Dale McAdam, Harry Reis, Miron Zuckerman, Al and Clara Baldwin as well as others who opened doors for our future career-paths.  More importantly, we established close friendships with many graduate students and research assistants in social and community psychology, with whom we remain close colleagues to this day. In many ways, it can be argued that the mentoring we received from them was as formative as the interactions we had with faculty. These then graduate students are now major influencers in their fields, and include Ray Lorion at Towson State, Lenny Jason at DePaul, Paul Toro at Wayne State, Sandy Azar at Penn State, Bruce Rapkin at Albert Einstein and the late Michael Kernis from the University of Georgia and Roger Weissberg at University of Illinois Chicago. We are proud to note that the Rochester academic diaspora in psychology and other fields is unbreakable and we are never surprised to discover a Rochester connection among the leading innovators.  With these thoughts in mind, we joined the George Eastman Circle.

Q: What do you find to be most rewarding about your George Eastman Circle membership?

A: Our involvement with the George Eastman Circle brought us back together with old friends in the Philadelphia area as well as providing opportunities to make new friends with locals who have Rochester connections. Our membership allows us to make lasting contributions to the University, which then radiates out nationally to the arts, sciences, and medicine.  In particular, we would like to note the invaluable contribution made by Donna Salmon, the Regional Director of Advancement, who recently passed away. She worked tirelessly to craft regional events that were meaningful, memorable, engaging, and fun to attend. Donna facilitated several luncheon events for the many University of Pennsylvania faculty with connections to Rochester. Donna also arranged for us to attend events in the Philadelphia area including a particularly memorable one at the Kimmel Center for the Performing Arts, where our family was able to watch Lilo perform with her a capella group, Vocal Point. Donna was a master of juggling a myriad of tasks, but as an example of her dedication and warmth, she took time out of her busy schedule to send us photos of Lilo’s performance at this event. So, while our involvement with the George Eastman Circle has been rewarding, our close working relationship with Donna made it doubly so.

Q: What was it like to have your daughter attend the University?

A: We were thrilled that Lilo chose to enroll in our alma mater and hoped that she would have similar experiences to ours from forty years prior.  Indeed, her experience in many ways was superior to ours. Lilo was heavily involved with the student community, a four-year participant in Vocal Point, a sister of Gamma Phi Beta, a four-year research assistant for the Women’s Initiative Supporting Health (WISH) program, the first student liaison to the American Public Health Association at Rochester and worked in the Department of Pediatrics residency program. In addition, Lilo completed a double major in psychology and public health and wrote undergraduate honors theses in both. During her undergraduate time, she also authored or co-authored many peer-reviewed publications. Lilo was able to thrive academically during her time at the URochester. Unfortunately, the COVID-19 pandemic required her to complete the spring semester of her senior year remotely, yet we are grateful that we will be able to celebrate her graduation with the rest of the Class of 2020 in person at Meliora Weekend.

Q: What did you and your family take with you from your time at the URochester?

A: None of us ever believed that college should be vocational training; the purpose of an undergraduate degree should be to teach people how to navigate novel situations and problems successfully. As a result, we all consider ourselves very fortunate that our time at Rochester taught us how to conduct research, and to think and learn for ourselves.

Are you interested in becoming a volunteer like Michael and Marlene? Contact Erin Bory, Senior Director, Volunteers and Engagement, George Eastman Circle, at erin.bory@rochester.edu.

Learn more about the George Eastman Circle.

 

 

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Keeping it in the Family /adv/alumni-news-media/2021/06/11/keeping-it-in-the-family/ /adv/alumni-news-media/2021/06/11/keeping-it-in-the-family/#respond Fri, 11 Jun 2021 14:27:03 +0000 /adv/alumni-news-media/?p=34422 As the University prepares to welcome the largest class in school history, some families are honoring their unique ties to Rochester along with celebrating admission. With their daughter, Alison, set to start as a first-year student this fall, Jonathan ’82 and Nina Kaplan ’86 are looking forward to connecting with their alma mater in a new way: as proud parents.

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Keeping it in the Family

The Kaplans and the Ģý

Jonathan '82 and Nina Kaplan '86 with daughter, Alison (center).

Jonathan ’82 and Nina Kaplan ’86 with daughter, Alison (center).

As the University prepares to welcome the largest class in school history, some families are honoring their unique ties to Rochester along with celebrating admission. With their daughter, Alison, set to start as a first-year student this fall, Jonathan ’82 and Nina Kaplan ’86 are looking forward to connecting with their alma mater in a new way: as proud parents.

As students, Jonathan and Nina’s University experiences were markedly different. Jonathan was a biochemistry major, member of Delta Sigma Phi, and part of the Cinema Club. Nina studied political science, was active in Hillel, and enjoyed taking trips to Canada with friends. The two didn’t meet until after graduating, when they were introduced through a mutual friend. While it was initially a coincidence that they had both attended the University, another Rochester connection was “born” when Jonathan’s fraternity brother delivered their first child.

Growing up, Alison (Ali) remembers seeing her parents’ diplomas hanging side-by-side on the wall and her dad’s fraternity clothes in the closet, but Rochester didn’t resurface in earnest until it was time to start the college application process. She was impressed by the University’s prestige, applied to “see what would happen,” and was thrilled to get accepted. After exploring everything the University offers, Ali knew it was the best fit for her.

Why Rochester?

Ali was drawn to Rochester’s open curriculum, sense of community, and the authentic love of learning among students. It was also clear that she would be able to pursue all of her interests, which include international affairs and dance. This same spirit was remembered by her parents. “Everyone truly wants to be at Rochester,” Nina says. “The University has really maintained and elevated its exceptional reputation.”

Making the next four years “ever better.”

While they are certainly no strangers to move-in day at college dorms (Ali is the youngest of four children in the Kaplan family), this August will be particularly special as Jonathan and Nina return to Rochester for the first time since their own graduations. Their best advice to Ali and other incoming students? “Just try it,” Jonathan says. “Whether it’s taking in a concert at Eastman or joining a club, take advantage of everything while you have access to it.” Nina adds some important words of wisdom: “Find your favorite study spot in Rush Rhees Library and claim it for as long as you can!”

— Alyssa Davis, June 2021

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‘In the midst of a storm, we can still find words of kindness.’ /adv/alumni-news-media/2021/05/25/in-the-midst-of-a-storm-we-can-still-find-words-of-kindness/ /adv/alumni-news-media/2021/05/25/in-the-midst-of-a-storm-we-can-still-find-words-of-kindness/#respond Tue, 25 May 2021 15:04:40 +0000 /adv/alumni-news-media/?p=33792 In April of this year, I laid in bed isolated and panic-stricken when my kids and I were diagnosed with COVID-19. We were so careful––always wearing masks and face shields, restricting going out, not meeting friends or family. But this new infectious variant literally came to our doorstep, perhaps through a delivery person.

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‘In the midst of a storm, we can still find words of kindness.’

Anuradha Hattangdi P’24 on lending a helping hand during the COVID-19 surge in India

In April of this year, I laid in bed isolated and panic-stricken when my kids and I were diagnosed with COVID-19. We were so careful—always wearing masks and face shields, restricting going out, not meeting friends or family. But this new infectious variant literally came to our doorstep, perhaps through a delivery person.

I was listless, my fever wasn’t breaking; I felt terribly weak and worried about my children. I couldn’t even watch television. But one of those days I did. News channels were flashing a grim situation in Delhi, registering over 1,000 new cases every hour. News bulletins covering the human catastrophe showed heartbreaking stories of people being turned away by hospitals who had run out of beds, medical supplies, even oxygen. There were queues at the crematorium. Delhi was burning.

While we were fortunate here in Mumbai with a doctor who monitored our health parameters every day and prescribed medicines which were delivered promptly to our doorstep, I felt helpless, sometimes tearful about why people couldn’t get access to basic medical services.

I felt that if I just lay listening and watching, I would regret not being able to help the situation even in a small way. Reasons like ‘I have no strength,’ or ‘I am advised by the doctor to avoid exertion by talking,’ felt shallow to me.

Focusing solely on myself while allowing time to slip away from those who needed help seemed selfish. Perhaps it was the influence of my parents: a lawyer, a principal of a women’s university, and lifelong practitioners of Gandhian community service values. They were always lending a helping hand to anyone who needed it, even those they didn’t know and those who didn’t ask. I thought about donating money, but it was clear that access to medical services was a more urgent need. That’s when I came across a news story on a collective of doctors, volunteers, and tech startups that had come together to support the healthcare delivery infrastructure by connecting with patients directly. I had been thinking of how I could help and this came right to me…it was too much of a coincidence!

The next day, I decided to pull myself up and fill out the interest form. Less than 24 hours later, I attended a two-hour online training with the task force. This was a group of dedicated volunteers who were selflessly committed to helping people they did not know halfway across our large nation. They all worked regular day jobs but had dedicated themselves to making a difference by spending a few hours each day helping those in need.

I speak directly with patients now. The conversations range from informing them that they’ve tested positive for the virus, connecting them with doctors for an online consultation, escalating cases to emergency services and teams that can deliver medicines and supplies, and finding hospitals that have vacant beds, oxygen availability, or even volunteer-driven ambulance services.

While some conversations are very hard emotionally—loss of family members, devastation, anger—at times I also hear a quiet ‘thank you’ and words of gratitude for simply having reached out to them. Such is human nature, isn’t it? In the midst of a storm, fear, chaos and death, we can still find words of kindness.

— Written by Anuradha Hattangdi P’24, May 10 2021

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‘Our parents and alumni in China are true University ambassadors’ /adv/alumni-news-media/2020/04/20/our-parents-and-alumni-in-china-are-true-university-ambassadors/ /adv/alumni-news-media/2020/04/20/our-parents-and-alumni-in-china-are-true-university-ambassadors/#respond Mon, 20 Apr 2020 20:06:50 +0000 /adv/alumni-news-media/?p=15602 By mid-April, the University’s China Parent Network Committee arranged an initial donation of 3,000 face masks for immediate distribution to students who were still on campus.

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‘Our parents and alumni in China are true University ambassadors’

Group donates nearly $30,000 and more than 100,000 masks to the Ģý

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Mask distribution outside of Wilson Commons

In response to challenges arising from COVID-19, the Ģý recently established two emergency funds to support its Medical Center and its students who remain on campus—80 percent of whom are international—as well as those who have other urgent needs emerging from this crisis. The University’s network of parents and alumni in China has generously responded.

By mid-April, the University’s China Parent Network Committee arranged an initial donation of 3,000 face masks for immediate distribution to students who were still on campus. The network then called upon the broader Chinese parent community—comprised of about 1,800 people—to rally more support for the University.

Collectively, that larger group raised nearly $30,000 for the University’s COVID-19 student emergency fund. Ģý a week later, they launched an additional effort via WeChat–China’s social networking platform–that raised $43,000, which they used to purchase 100,000 surgical face masks for the Medical Center’s frontline health care staff and for students who remain on campus.

The group’s support began in early April, when Evans Lam ’83, ’84S (MBA) was actively engaging Rochester’s alumni and parent community in China. On WeChat, Lam posted, “the UR is so emphatic in caring for our international students” and “we are all partners in education.” Lam—a University trustee and chair of the George Eastman Circle, the University’s leadership annual giving society—even personally allocated $25,000 to a newly established COVID-19 student emergency fund.

“Our parents and alumni community in China are true University ambassadors,” says Alyssa Shoup ’10, ’11W (MS), senior associate director, Alumni Relations. “Here at the University we are all deeply moved by their acts of generosity. They’ve given their time to ensure fellow parents understand what is going on and they’ve demonstrated their gratitude through giving, which greatly helps our students as well as our frontline health care workers.”

Shoup adds that the University’s Taiwanese Alumni Network is also in the process of coordinating efforts to support the COVID-19 student emergency fund.

What parents had to say

“My daughter is an undergraduate here. She loves UofR, so we support! We believe UofR can go through this unsettling period of time!”

“Thanks for putting students’ safety as a priority. As a mother of a Chinese student, we trust you, appreciate everything you have done so far. Please keep us updated.”

“My daughter is one of Class 2022 students from China. In this way, I would like to express my sincere gratitude to all UR faculty for their efforts after the outbreak, including open and timely communication with parents; accommodation and protection for international students. I hope this money can be used to help the infected UR students and faculty.”

“Thanks to those helping the kids through the difficult time. Take good care of yourselves too…”

“As the parents we appreciate the humanity, inclusion and diversity demonstrated by UR and also feel so grateful being part of the UR family in this challenging time.”

Read more about how Rochester alumni and friends are helping the University.

We all can do something to help. Consider , (URMC is facing a critical shortage), or support our .

— Kristine Thompson, April 2020

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Rochester: It’s a Family Affair for the Kapners /adv/alumni-news-media/2020/02/03/rochester-its-a-family-affair-for-the-kapners/ /adv/alumni-news-media/2020/02/03/rochester-its-a-family-affair-for-the-kapners/#respond Mon, 03 Feb 2020 14:35:48 +0000 /adv/alumni-news-media/?p=11112 Ģý connections run deep for the Kapner family. With Julianne Kapner’s 2019 graduation, the family

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Rochester: It’s a Family Affair for the Kapners

Ģý connections run deep for the Kapner family. With Julianne Kapner’s 2019 graduation, the family proudly includes nine Rochester alumni now. Five of them—including Julianne’s parents, uncle, and grandparents along with other family members—attended Commencement this year to celebrate her achievement.

It was exciting for Julianne to have so many family members here for her graduation—a different experience than many of her peers had. “On one hand, I had to accept that it wasn’t just ‘my’ day, it was really a family day,” she says. “We celebrated not only my graduation but our family’s special ties to—and memories associated with—their time at Rochester.

“As a legacy student, you approach attending here in a different way than others,” Julianne adds. “You have a bit more loyalty when you arrive. Even though I was new here, I knew a little about the place, and I could tell people about good places to study and eat. It provided a degree of comfort when there were so many new experiences unfolding.”

The Kapner-Rochester family tree

It all started with Julianne’s grandparents. Stephen Kapner ’60 was a history major who minored in non-western civilizations, which, he says, contributed to his life’s work: teaching, heading up schools, and serving as an educational consultant in Bangladesh, India, Libya, Algeria, Morocco, and Afghanistan.

Stephen’s younger brother, John Kapner ’62, went to Rochester as well, and was a chemical engineering major. Both were members of Sigma Chi. Stephen and Barbara, who attended Highland Hospital’s nursing school, had two boys, Robert Kapner ’86 and Stephen Kapner II ’84. Serendipitously, that’s two generations of Kapner brothers who went to Rochester together, and with just two years spaced between them.

Robert would later marry Mary Webb ’86. Together, they had two daughters, Julianne and Emily. Although Robert, a geomechanics major, and Mary, a geology major, went to Rochester at the same time, they didn’t meet until after graduating. Mary was drawn to Rochester for its collegiate environment and music. For Robert, he liked the idea of geology and engineering. Eventually, both of them became educators.

Mary and her good friend Ellen Walters ’86 were in Vocal Point, one of Rochester’s many a cappella groups. Ellen would later marry the brother of Mary’s cousin, Sarah Foster ’85, who attended Rochester at the same time—yet another family connection to Rochester.”

Some family stories

Family lore has it that when Grandpa Stephen was home on a break and got his mother upset, she called the airline and put him on a flight right back to college. Stephen has regaled his family of this story many times, along with the story of how he and Barbara met.

“My fraternity was having a party one night and a bunch of us needed dates, including me. So, I called a friend at Highland Hospital’s nursing school and asked her if she knew some women who would want to join us,” he remembers. “I don’t remember how each person got matched up, but I do recall that Barbara ended up being my brother’s date that night. I did notice her though, and the day after the party Barbara and some of her friends came back to the frat house because they had forgotten something the night before. The rest is, well, history.”

Stephen and Barbara had their first kiss on the Eastman Quad, near where the George Eastman statue stands today. “While there for Julianne’s graduation, we even reenacted that great event at the same spot for the family,” laughs Stephen.

Julianne has her own stories, too. For instance, when she was early into her freshman year, she came down with classic homesickness. So, she rang her father. They talked about her classes and life on campus, and he shared memories of his time here. It was cathartic.

“My dad asked me where I liked to study, and I told him the Wells-Brown room in Rush Rhees Library,” she says. “He told me that he studied there, too, and just hearing that painted a picture in my head of my dad there, in the same space as me. It was reassuring and became a moment I will always remember.”

Coincidentally, Julianne and her father shared the same view out of their dorm room windows. For a time, Julianne lived in Morgan 420; her dad had lived in Morgan 520. Julianne would later live in the same suite as did her cousin, Sarah, on the Music Interest floor. And, Julianne and her mother would talk about how they both went sledding on the same hill behind Sage Hall, just decades apart.

Growing up, many of the family stories Julianne heard were about Rochester. “As a kid, my picture of college was the URochester,” she adds. “My mother even sang the Dandelion Yellow song to me when I was little. And, by the time I came here, I knew The Genesee—the University’s alma mater—by heart.”

Why Rochester?

“My family didn’t put any pressure on me to apply, but I was curious if I would be accepted,” she says. “I got in, visited, learned about the place, and realized that this would be a good fit for me, too.” The linguistics program clinched it for Julianne, who was impressed with what Rochester had to offer. She majored in it and minored in classical civilizations.

Once on campus, Julianne became very involved in academic pursuits and student life. She’s a percussionist, too, drawn here—like her mom—for the music on campus and at Eastman. She was a member of the Linguistics Undergraduate Council, Grassroots (an environmental club), Swing Dance Club, wind symphony, symphony orchestra, and the Students Association for Interfaith Cooperation. She was also a peer advisor, participated in undergraduate research, studied abroad in Greece and Ghana, and took music lessons at Eastman School of Music.

With her degree in hand, Julianne moved to Washington, D.C. right after graduation. She works at the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association as a research assistant. Someday, she’d like to get a PhD in linguistics.

“Everyone in my family came here for their own reasons,” she says. “This is a special place where I’ve made lifelong friends and connections. My family did, too, and we are all happy to be Ģý alumni.”


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—Kristine Thompson, February 2020

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